What’s up with that guy you’ve been wondering about. You keep wondering if he likes you. Well, does he?
You don’t know. Could it be that he does like you? He may be giving you signs he likes you but is playing it cool. However, you don’t know what those signs are.
Lucky you in this blog post we reveal 17 signs he likes you but is playing it cool.
Be on the lookout for them because no matter how cool he plays it, if you see these signs, the chances are that he does like you. Let’s get started on what those signs are.
1) HE’S ALWAYS WHERE YOU ARE
This is a sure sign that he likes you but is playing it cool, he’s always where you are. Whether you work for the same company and you always see him around you or if you frequent the same places and he’s always there as well.
If a man likes you he will pay attention to the places you frequent and show up and make it look completely coincidental. If this is happening often with you and him, it’s no coincidence. He’s planning it out.
2) HE ALWAYS OFFERS TO HELP
Ladies, men keep busy and value their time. If a guy is often offering to help with whatever you need, it’s an affirmation that he does like you.
For him, helping you is a way to be around you. And while he’s around you he is hoping to make an impression on you. That may be that he’s a nice guy, that he’s helpful and caring, strong, etc.
3) HE INVITES YOU TO FAMILY FUNCTIONS
Ladies, if a man invites you to family events it’s likely that he does like you and is attempting to play it cool.
By inviting you to a family gathering, function, etc, it’s a way for him to take you out, without taking you out.
By him asking you to come to a family function it’s no way near as intimidating as asking you out for dinner or something of sorts. And at the family function he will also get a feel for how his family feels about you.
Therefore, if a man invites you to a family function, if you like him as well, be noted that he is taking notes.
4) HE DEBRIEFS YOU ON HIS DAILY ACTIVITIES
A sure way to know that a man likes you but is playing it cool is if he often tells you what is going on in his life.
Men don’t open up easily or often, so if he is telling you about his daily activities, goals and dreams those are signs he likes you but is playing it cool.
5) HE COMPLIMENTS YOU OFTEN
Sure there are times when a man is complimenting you to be polite and truthful. However, if that same man compliments you often on your hair, appearance, etc, it’s indicative that he likes you.
You need to pay attention to such compliments. If you like him, be sure that you compliment him as well, otherwise he will stop with the compliments.
A random compliment or a compliment here or there is normal. However, when it’s pretty regular, those are signs that he likes you but is playing it cool.
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6) HE’S ALWAYS DRESSED SHARP AND WELL GROOMED AROUND YOU
This may be a tough one to pick up on especially if he is a well dressed and groomed guy. However, even then, you will notice that there are occasions that he steps up his wear and groom. On those occasions it’s very likely that he is doing so to get your attention.
7) HE ASKS YOU FOR YOUR PHONE NUMBER/SOCIAL MEDIA
No matter how cool he tries to play it, he will eventually ask you for your phone number and/or social media if he likes you.
8) HE LOOKS AT YOUR STORIES AND AT TIMES REACTS TO THEM
He may not tell you that he likes you, but he does want you to know that he’s keeping up with you. A sure way of doing this is by looking at your stories and reacting to them.
Now, he may not do so all of the time because he does not want to creep you out. But he certainly does tap in to see what you are up to.
9) BUYS YOU THINGS
If he is buying you things, he may believe that he is keeping it cool depending on the magnitude of the gift. Therefore, be noted, guys don’t randomly buy gifts for girls that they don’t want to be with.
Remember, no matter the size or value of the gift, if he’s buying you gift(s), he likes you. Accept them if you like him. If you don’t, accepting the gift(s) will only serve to lead him on.
10) HE’S ALWAYS AVAILABLE FOR YOU
If he’s always available for you, whether during his busy times or down times, he likes you but is playing it cool.
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11) HE MENTIONS YOU TO OTHER PEOPLE
When he brings you up in conversations with other people, that’s not only an indication that you are on his mind, but that he is also thinking of you and is impressed by you.
So, when someone tells you that he brought you up in a conversation it’s worth noting. Pay attention to this because it’s part of the signs that he likes you but is playing it cool.
12) TRIES TO HAVE TIME ALONE WITH YOU
Girl, if a man is looking to have alone time with you, then he has passed the playing it cool stage. When a man wants to be alone with you, that is a sure sign that he likes you.
Examples of wanting to spend alone time with you can be inviting you out to dinner, inviting you to his place, suggesting taking trips together, etc.
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13) PHYSICAL TOUCH
When a man makes attempts at physically touching you or physically touches you, then it’s a no brainer. There is clearly something about you that he likes.
Now, those touches won’t always be direct. They can also be subtle touches. Maybe brushing you on you, taps on your shoulders, running his fingers through your hair, etc. These are all signs that he likes you but is playing it cool. Be on the lookout for them.
14) MAKES TIME FOR YOU
If he always makes time for you, girl he likes you.
Think about it, every time you need him for something, no matter what it is, he’s never too busy. When a man is always available for you, that is a strong indication that he likes you. Especially if he’s an outgoing and ambitious man. That is because those men are very busy and their time is valuable. If he’s willing to take time out of his daily hustle to attend to your needs, he’s clearly interested in you.
15) HE LISTENS AND CARES ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY
A sure sign that he likes you and is playing it cool is that he listens to you and actually cares about what you have to say.
Men are not very good at listening. Therefore, if he’s making time to genuinely listen to you, it’s because he cares and is likely interested in you.
16) HE REMEMBERS WHAT YOU SAID
He constantly impresses you by remembering what you said. At times, even quoting what you said.
Don’t take this lightly, when a man remembers what you said and does so often, it means something. What this usually means is that he is making an effort to impress you by remembering what you said. And when men attempt to impress someone of the opposite sex it’s usually because they like the person.
17) ASK HIM
Tips 1 through 16 are great indicators of signs that he likes you but is playing it cool.
However, if you want to know for sure whether he likes you or not, the most sure way of finding out is to ask him. That’s right, ask him and remove all doubts.
Now, the tricky thing about these tips is, some guys will display all of these tips as well in an effort to sleep with you. Therefore you have to be mindful of that.
Ultimately, you can never know for sure if all a guy wants to do is sleep with you. However, something that you can do to mitigate that possibility is to get a relationship, and for some, a marriage commitment from him before ever progressing in that direction.
And as always we like to close with a saying, quote or adage and today’s is from Lala Anthony (video below): THERE’S NOTHING WRONG IF A FEMALE SEES SOMETHING THEY’D LIKE TO APPROACH AND PUT SOMETHING OUT THERE.
Now, go forth and change the game!