Mistakes don’t have to be repeated or made with women. Therefore we’re giving you 11 Crucial Mistakes Men Make Whey They Like A Woman so that you can do exactly that, avoid making them. In doing so, you will heighten the possibility of making the woman you like, your woman.
Let’s get into them.
1) YOU DON’T LET HER KNOW YOU LIKE HER
No, we’re not saying to not let her know you like her. We’re saying it’s a mistake to when you don’t let her know that you like her.
When you don’t let her know that you like her, how is she supposed to know that you like her? Do you want her to guess or read your mind? Well, no human being has such powers, women included!
And if you’re in expectations that she’ll get the hint, don’t be. She may not. Plus, women tend to display liking a man via hints. You as a man need to let her know, unquestionably.
She may like you too, and if she doesn’t then you won’t be wasting your time.
DISCLOSURE: We’re not saying that every women you like you must let them know directly. But if never let a woman know that you like her it could just turn into a game of who will chase who longer.
2) YOU STOP BEING YOURSELF
You stop being yourself. Intentionally you alter your essence as a person in order to appeal to her or in fear that she may not find your essence flattering. Big mistake. You should never change who you ultimately are as a person in order to be liked by another person.
Sure there are traits that we need to improve on and should alter, but who you are as a person, no!
We’re not saying don’t adjust and become a better you, but certainly be yourself. The essence of you.
DISCLOSURE: Be aware of the changes that you do make to appeal to her. Your core values and principles, even your laugh, are part of your essence.
If you change who you are as a person in order to court or appease a woman you are committing one of the 11 Crucial Mistakes Men Make When They Like A Woman.
3) BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR HER
This is a crucial mistake that men make when they like a women, they’re always bending backwards for her.
You can and should bend backwards for a woman, your women. Not a women that you like. If you do so she will absolutely perceive you as week and submissive. You’ll be opening up a door of advantage taking and dominance for her.
4) PRETENDING NOT TO LIKE HER, AFTER YOU TOLD HER YOU DO
Pretending not to like her after you’ve told he you like her. Crucial mistake that makes you look very immature in her eyes.
You told her you like her, now don’t pretend that you don’t. It sends off mixed signals. She may very well perceive those mixed signals as you being flaky.
We’re not saying for you to be all over her because you told her you like her. She herself may not like that. However, don’t avoid her as a tactic. Rather, text her, call her, converse with her when she’s around. This will further reassure her that you do like her. This will remove any doubts that she might have of you actually liking her.
5) YOU PLAY DOCTOR
You play doctor. That is, your always on stand by or on call for her. Whenever she does call or reaches out with a need you are there on your hands and knees.
You can definitely come through on one or two occasions, but don’t make it a habit of doing so. A habit that she will love, but not you. After all, why would she ever see the need in you being her man when you already do everything for her a man would. And, that is, without you even being her man.
Therefore, instead of playing doctor, play hard. Hey, it’s part of the process.
6) YOU GIVE HER MONEY, GIFTS AND TRIPS
You give her money, gifts and trips. Now, these things are okay if you want to be her sugar daddy.
If you want to be her man and not her sugar daddy you need to know that she’s going to be with you in spite of what you can and can’t do for her. You won’t find out if you don’t stop all the senseless giving.
7) YOU EXPRESS TOO MANY FEELINGS TOO SOON
You express too many feelings too soon. Don’t make this mistake. She’ll take it and run with it.
Being so expressive so soon will lead her to believe that she has you in the palm of her hands. And the aim is not to be in the palm of her hands but in the beat of her heart.
When she has you in the palm of her hands she can squeeze, relinquish or drop you at anytime.
Now, that’s not the type of power you want to give to a women because you like her.
8) YOU’RE OVERLY SARCASTIC
You’re just too excessive with the sarcasm. All of the sarcastic jokes on her, when you’re with your friends, or hers, that you find so funny, she doesn’t.
What you are actually doing is pushing her away from you. You’re doing so because those sarcastic jokes bring her down, they rattle her self esteem and confidence. This thus causes her to resent you and not want to be around you. Not how you want a woman that you like to feel.
Therefore, hold all the sarcasm. She doesn’t find them funny. Actually, she finds them offensive.
DISCLAIMER: We’re not saying, no sarcasm ever. But you do need to use excellent judgment as to when they’re appropriate. Around others they’re likely to be inappropriate 99% of the time.
9) YOU CHASE HER
Generally, the more you chase women, the further they run away from you.
Reconstruct your efforts because if you’re having to chase her it is very likely that she is not the one.
HOWEVER: There will certainly be an element of “chasing” but it is properly referred to as courting. It is absolutely essential to court her but inessential to chase her.
10) YOU TELL HER ABOUT YOUR BAGGAGE
It is a crucial mistake that men make when they tell women they like about their baggage.
We all possess some sort of baggage, but the woman you like is not the one that you want to unload it on. The first thought on her mind may very well be, you got a lot of baggage you need to deal with before you can deal with me.
She may also even think that you are looking for sympathy or pity. Not what you want a women you like to be thinking of you.
Plus, not to mention, pouring your baggage on her will lead you straight into the friend zone. You’ll simply be another friend that she’s trying to help.
11) GIVE UP TOO SOON
You gave up too soon. You didn’t strive long enough to see how close you are.
And guess what, now the spoils go to your friend or one of your friends. As soon as they see you back away, they’re on it! I know, and you didn’t think they were interested in her.
So, don’t give up…too soon.
CONCLUSION
We feel very comfortable that if you avoid these 11 Crucial Mistakes That Men Make Whey They Like A Woman you will have a far greater chance at her liking you as well.
And as always we like to close with a saying, quote or adage and today’s is: IT WASN’T A MISTAKE, IT WAS A LESSON. THEREFORE, FORGET THE MISTAKE, REMEMBER THE LESSON.
Now, go forth and change the game!