So you met a girl and you want to know, is she the one? Great question as men often wonder this when they meet a girl that they are interested in. In this post we will give you 7 sure ways for you to know if she is the one.
1) YOU CAN’T STOP THINKING ABOUT HER
When you can’t stop thinking about her then you know that you’re on to something. If the majority of your thoughts throughout your day are about her, then that’s a sure indication that there’s something about her.
2) WHEN YOU THINK OF THE FUTURE YOU THINK OF HER
Another sure sign of, is she the one, is if when you think of the future and she is those thoughts. If you’re thinking about your future plans and you’re including her in them, then that’s a sure sign that she’s the one.
3) SHE FITS THE DESCRIPTION OF YOUR IDEAL WOMAN
Notice that we said she fits the description of your ideal women, and not perfect women. That’s because no woman will be the perfect one. Perfection doesn’t exist. However, you can have a woman that fits the majority of the preferences you look for in a woman.
To help you out, outline the top 5 to 10 things that you look for in a woman. Check off all of the ones that she fits. Again, she may very likely not fit all of them. Now, ask yourself, are you okay with all of the ones you checked off and can you see yourself with her in spite of you not checking off everything on that list.
That’s important because you don’t want to fault her for not being 100% what you want. Remember, the chances are that you are not 100% what she wants, but your great qualities override the shortcomings. No one is perfect in personality or looks.
4) SHE’S SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR DREAMS
You want a woman who is supportive of your dreams. Otherwise there will be constant conflict because she will be mostly concerned with the “reality” of things. It’s important that you share your dreams with her early on and gauge her level of commitment towards you and your dreams as well.
That’s because if she doesn’t support your dreams then she’s ultimately not supportive of you. You both need to be on the same page as far as your dreams.
You as well must be supportive of her dreams. It goes both ways.
5) CAN YOU SEE YOURSELF PRESENTING HER TO YOUR FAMILY?
Is she the one is heavily dependent on this as well: Can you see yourself presenting her to your family. If you can’t see yourself bringing her over to your family’s house for dinner or the family cookout, she is not the one.
The reason is because if you can’t present her to your family then you’re ashamed of something about her. Whatever that is, it’ll keep your relationship with her from flourishing.
So, if you can’t present her to your family, she is not the one for you.
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6) ARE YOU OKAY WITH PRESENTING HER TO YOUR FRIENDS?
This is also a sure indication of, is she the one? The reason is because when men like a girl they have no reservations in presenting her to their friends.
If you feel like you are not willing to present her to your friends then you are not proud to have her as your girl. And if you are not proud of the girl you are with, she is not the one. Whereas if you are, that’s a sure sign that she is the one.
7) YOU’RE WILLING TO COMPROMISE
If she is the one you will be willing to compromise. Certain things that you were only willing to do them your way, you now find yourself open to modifying them if it makes her happy.
Now, you’re not changing the essence of who you are as a person, but you’re absolutely willing to make adjustments that will make her happy. You compromise because you know that being with her is a far greater outcome than being stubborn about the unnecessary.
Remember the famous saying, if it doesn’t bend, it breaks.
And as always we like to close with a saying, quote or adage and today’s is from Leo Christopher: ONE DAY, I’LL FIND HER. AND WHEN THEY ASK ME HOW I KNEW SHE WAS THE ONE, I’LL TELL THEM, “BECAUSE SHE LOVED ME IN SPITE OF ALL THE UNLOVABLE PIECES.”
Now, go forth and change the game!