Getting a man is one thing, keeping a man is another thing. Therefore, in this blog post we will be sharing 5 must do’s on how to keep a man.
Ladies, believe it or not, men are not complicated. The man you’re in a relationship with doesn’t require much. Think about it. He’s not obsessing you about going on a vacation. He’s not insisting on going out to eat.
As a matter of fact, the simple things keep him happy. For example, watching a movie at home with you. Going for a walk and the 5 must do’s on how to keep a man.
Now, contrast that with the things that most women desire from a man and you will notice that the man’s list is enough to count on one hand, whereas for women, the things you desire, to say the least, exceed the amount of hands one person has.
Without further ado, let’s get into the 5 must dos on how to keep a man.
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1) KEEP DOING THE THINGS THAT GOT YOU HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE
This is something that many men raise a concern about. They feel that once you “got him” you stopped doing the things that actually got him interested in you.
Don’t do that. Not only will the man feel like it was somewhat of a set up, but he might even call you out on it, at the risk of you taking it personal, neglecting his perspective and you become resentful of him for calling you out on it.
You know the things that you did that led him to commit to you in the first place, You can’t get complacent or lazy about doing them. You have to keep up with doing them.
2) YOU HAVE TO GIVE HIM SPACE
You have to give your man space. That is, you can’t be trying to keep tabs on him 24 hours a day. You have to let that man go out and do things that he wants to do, without you constantly checking up on him.
Remember, he is a man, not a child. Also remember, you are his woman, not his mother. If you treat him as if he is a child and that you are his mother, that’s never going to work. Sooner than later, that frustration inside of him will overflow and manifest in ways that are hindering your relationship as a couple.
A man is going to need to go out at times, alone! Let him!
3) PEACE OF MIND
If there is one thing a man needs from his woman is peace of mind. The world is turbulent enough, he needs his relationship with you to be as solid as possible.
You gotta stop with the nagging, the complaining and making him feel inadequate. You need to bring him peace. Peace when he’s with you. Peace when he’s home. Peace when he’s away from you. Peace! Peace! Peace!
If you’re not giving your man peace of mind, he’s not going to want to be around you. He’s not going to want to come home. He’s going to leave early and come home late. All because he feels like there is no peace in his relationship with you or in his home.
So much so, that he would prefer to leave early and wait in his car before work starts and/or leave work and go park somewhere and just be at peace before he comes home to you.
4 & 5) DON’T GET ON HIS NERVES AND HAVE SEX WITH HIM
Number 4 and 5 come to you courtesy of Marlon Wayans. When he was asked, can a man ever be faithful he said, yes.
Marlon Wayans share two things that a man must do to keep a faithful man. Marlon says, “I think you [men] have to be ready to be faithful. And women, when you have a faithful man, do yourself a favor, two favors.” Marlon continues and lists what those two favors are. He says, “Don’t get on his nerves and fu**k’m. That’s all you gotta do. You do that, you got a good happy relationship. He’s not there just to give’m problems.”
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Ladies, nothing in life is guaranteed. We know that. But by following these 5 must dos on how to keep a man that we listed, your odds of having a successful relationship with your man are much more in your favor than otherwise.
And as always we like to close with a saying, quote or adage and today’s is from Phillipa Gregory: ANYONE CAN ATTRACT A MAN. THE TRICK IS TO KEEP A MAN.
Now, go forth and change the game!