As a man you need to know the 5 Essentials To Look Approachable To Women and not because a woman is going to approach you. As we’ve stated before, it’s rare that a women will approach a man. This may simply be a culture thing or for the fact that it’s how popular media projects it’s supposed to be or that she may feel that it’s your duty to man up and approach her.
Women don’t generally approach men. What women generally do is they give hints that it’s okay for men to approach them.
What we are saying about you looking approachable to a woman is that women tend to notice you even way before you notice them and that itself is a form of her approaching you.
Therefore, remember, you taught you saw her first, however, chances are that she saw you first. Women tend to be that much more observant, especially if they’re single and looking.
Thus, you need to look approachable because it’s very likely that she saw you first. Even if it was for a quick glance, that was enough for her to measure you up and formulate a first impression of you.
Yes, you made your first impression before you even approached her.
With that said, let’s get into the 5 Essentials To Look Approachable To Women. As you read these essentials, bear in mind that it’s very likely that she saw you first, though it’s unlikely for her to tell you so during your first conversation.
1) BE WELL GROOMED
As much as possible, be well groomed. We’re talking everything, from your hair to your beard. Simply put, have a pleasing and updated appearance.
2) BE DRESSED PRESENTABLE
Being dressed presentable is a cousin of being well groomed and they are a must every time. Don’t be well groomed and drop the ball on being dressed presentable, and vice versa.
We go more in depth on being dressed presentable in another post. Fundamentals to being dressed presentable is to make sure your clothes are clean, fresh, ironed, not too faded and coordinate.
3) YOUR POSTURE
You need to be mindful of your posture whether you’re standing or sitting.
If you’re standing, you’re back needs to be upright and not hunched over. You need to have your head up, confident strides as you walk and eyes on the prize.
As a side note, if you’re a little shorter, you will be surprised at how much taller you become once you stand straight, with your back erect.
The same goes for when you’re sitting, you need to be mindful of your posture and don’t be slouching over. Have your head up high and look inviting. A sure way to do this is not to have your arms crossed, be listening to headphones, looking down or with a frown on your face.
BONUS: Regularly swimming is a sure way to improve your posture. When you swim, with a correct form, it will automatically correct your posture to an upright one versus a slouched one.
Also, you can have people hold you accountable and call you out on your slouching when you’re doing it. However, because it can be a tough habit to break, they’ll be calling you out on it, a lot. Don’t be offended.
4) DON’T BE LOOKING SO BUSY
A lot of times you’re not busy, you just like to look it. However, don’t. Stop looking so busy. You’ll miss out on a lot because everyone thinks you’re just too busy. That also goes for missing out on potential opportunities with women.
To be real, most of the time, you’re just fronting busy. For example, on your phone playing online games, unnecessary texting, etc.
Sir, pretending to look busy, will keep you really single. Take your busy self off the phone so you can look approachable and go forth and approach that woman.
EXTRA: Fronting busy is not cool. What is cool is being busy but making it look like you’re not. Now, that’s cool, wouldn’t you agree?
5) DISPLAY A HAPPY FACE
Always keep an approachable look on your face. This is done by displaying a happy face.
We’re not saying that you have to have a smile on your face from ear to ear all day long, however, look happy. You can do this by having a smile on your face or simply by not having a frown on your face.
When you walk passed people or are among people, smile! We know that for many guys this is not something they are used to, but you must make it a habit to do so. It will really make you look that more approachable to women and to people in general.
Now that you know the 5 Essentials To Look Approachable To Women, look approachable to a woman. Get out your comfort zone and look approachable. Remember, the whole concept of looking approachable to women is not that they are going to physically approach you.
It’s that women generally notice you before you notice them and that in itself is a form of her approaching you. And when she does notice you, her approachment to you, be approachable by following the above stated 5 Essentials To Look Approachable To A Woman.
And as always we like to close with a saying, quote or an adage and today’s is: YOU DON’T GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION ESPECIALLY WHEN THAT FIRST IMPRESSION WAS MADE WITHOUT YOU KNOWING IT.
Now, go forth and change the game!