It seems that our society has become one that promotes singleness in a strong way to women. It has become somewhat of a holy doctrine to promote staying single to women and shunned on to encourage women to get married. It sounds outlandish, right? Because many of the people who are projecting this image are married, divorced, married again or looking to get married.
Think about all of the pop culture music that encourages women to stay single. To be independent. That they don’t need a man. I’m sure you’ve heard them before. So the question is, are single women happy? Below we will outline some of the things that make single women so happy.
SINGLE WOMEN GET TO PAY ALL OF THE BILLS
If you want to be happy and single then you have to be happy that you’re paying all of your bills, by yourself. It makes no sense to say that you’re happy single and yet you hate paying 100% of the bills yourself. If you weren’t so happy you’d look for a mate. But obviously single women are very happy to pay their bills.
SINGLE WOMEN LOVE TO COME HOME TO AN EMPTY HOME
If you’re a happy single woman then you love coming home to an empty home. You love the thought of getting home and there’s no one there to greet you. There’s no one there to watch your favorite television program with you. You love the thought of being home on the weekends by yourself. You love having no one to cuddle with. You love not having anyone to go on a walk with and hold your hand. No. Single women actually hate all of those things.
That’s why so many of them have a dog. That dog is used to fill that void that they cannot stand. It gives them a perception that they are in a relationship.
SINGLE WOMEN LOVE THE THOUGHT OF NOT HAVING THEIR OWN FAMILY
If you’re a happily single woman then you must love the thought of not having a family of your own. You must love going to family functions and seeing the non single, married women, with their children and husband and you thank the heavens that it’s not you. If you’re happily single then you must scoff at the thought of giving birth. You must scoff at the thought of marriage. If you don’t, then you are not happily single.
WHAT ARE WE REALLY SAYING?
What we’re saying is that there are a few women out there who are happily single, but most are not. Most women want a significant other. Believe it or not, many want to get married, give birth and have a family.
That begs the question then, why do women who are not happily single say that they are happily single? The answer is, they have been indoctrinated to believe that they are better off single and without a man.
And as always we like to close with a saying, quote or adage and today’s is from rapper and fashion icon, Kanye West (video below): When you see a headline that says, Kim says, oh I’m going to stay single forever. That’s the indoctrination. Like, because they want this person to tell all the little girls out there that they need to be single forever.
Now, go forth and change the game!