10 Harsh Quotes Men Have To Accept

Many times in today’s society men aren’t being spoken to truthfully. However, it’s important to do so because there are some truths that men must accept no matter how harsh they may seem.

In this article we share with you 10 harsh quotes men have to accept.

1) ANY MAN ON THIS PLANET THAT EXPECTS ANOTHER MAN TO TAKE CARE OF HIM LIKE HE’S HIS WIFE IS NOT A MAN

For a man it’s imperative that he learns to take care of himself and is not dependent on someone to take care of him, especially another man. Men cannot be dependent on other men to take care of them, especially when those same men have to take care of themselves and their families as well.

Therefore never become dependent or have expectations for another man to take care of you. Take care of yourself and your family as the next man should be doing.

2) EVERYBODY SAYS THEY LOVE YOU UNTIL SOMETHING HAPPENS

As a man it’s important for you to know that people will always say they love you and that they’re there for you. In some cases this is true. However, more times than not some of those people will be nowhere to be found. As 2Pac said in a song: Can’t pay the rent, time to see who really is your friend.

Be sure that you position yourself in a way that if something does happen you can be there for yourself and not be dependent on other people.

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3) MOVE ON. DON’T WASTE TIME FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF

Things are going to happen to all men in life. Break ups, businesses go bad, people slander you, etc. Things in life will happen that you did not expect. Things that will completely shock you.

However, the worst thing you can do is wollow in sorrow. That is, start feeling sorry for yourself and throw a pity party. That’s not going to help the situation.

What you need to do is assess the matter, learn from it and move on as quickly as possible. Whatever you do, don’t start feeling sorry for yourself. Move on!

4) WHEN YOU DECIDE TO GO YOUR OWN WAY THEY WILL DECLARE YOU AN ENEMY…OR YOU CAN DECIDE TO STAY AND LET THEM RULE OVER YOU

Many times in life there will come a time when you decide it’s time to go off on your own and leave the flock. However, those who have become comfortable inside the flock will look at you strangely and even berate you for wanting to leave. Some will even become your enemy if you leave.

Now you will then have to decide. Do you stay and appease and please them or do you go off on your own away from their mastery over you.

Remember the quote: A comfort zone is a beautiful place, but nothing good ever grows there.

5) MOST PEOPLE GO OUT AS A WAY TO ESCAPE A LIFE THEY HATE. CREATE A LIFE YOU LOVE SO THAT YOU’LL WANT TO STAY IN

The truth is most of us men go out as a way to escape our reality. The key to overcome this is to create a reality that you love that you can escape in.

Work harder today so that in the future the life you used to escape is the life that you live.

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6) A LOT OF TIMES THE SAME ONES CHEERING FOR YOU ARE THE SAME ONES TRYING TO BRING YOU DOWN

Not everyone cheering for you wants you to win. There are many people who are envious of your success or strive for success but they don’t want to be seen as such. Therefore they’ll clap and cheer for you along the way.

However, if an opportunity presents itself where they can bring you down they wouldn’t even blink an eye.

Therefore it’s important to be aware of who is cheering for you and not to fully trust and confide in them all. That is because many people don’t want to see you win, especially when they don’t stand to gain anything directly from you winning.

Some are even afraid that your success will only serve to reflect their failure.

7) ANOTHER MAN DOESN’T OWE YOU NOTHING BUT RESPECT

It’s important to know that no man owes you nothing, other than respect. Don’t expect anything from another man other than respect.

If you have any expectations of what another man owes you it should only be that, respect. And with that said you owe that to them as well.

No man owes you a favor, money, opportunity, just respect.

8) WHEN YOU GET TO THE TOP YOUR FRIENDS KNOW WHO YOU ARE. WHEN YOU HIT THE BOTTOM YOUR FRIENDS KNOW WHO YOU ARE

When you get to the top then your friends will really know who you are. Will you abandon them, mistreat them or no longer want to be their friends?

And when you hit the bottom, you will know who your friends are. Will they help you get back on your feet, be there for you, encourage you or not?

9) YOU CAN’T KEEP BLAMING YOUR PARENTS FOR EVERYTHING. IT’S TIME TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LIFE

As long as you have a “poor me” mentality and attitude you will not reach your full potential as a man. If you’re going to maximize your full potential you’re going to have to stop blaming your parents for past misfortunes that happened, most likely in your youth.

Now you’re a grown man and you can’t keep blaming past occurrences for your present situation. You have to man up and take a stance of self accountability. It is no longer your parents fault and it’s up to you to change your present situation.

10) A WISE MAN CAN BE FOUND ALONE. A WEAK MAN ALWAYS WANTS TO BE IN A CROWD

A wise man is secure and does not feel the need to be in a crowd. A wise man can be found alone and it’s no problem to him.

Learn to be alone. It’s a sign of maturity and wisdom.

CONCLUSION

These 10 harsh quotes men have to accept are fundamental to living a life where there are less disappointments because the expectations are less and clearer.

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