10 Hard To Accept Quotes About People In Your Life

Having people in our lives is a blessing and we should not take those people for granted. However, there may be people in our lives with ulterior motives. These 10 Hard To Accept Quotes About People In Your Life will help you know who those people are.

Without further ado, let’s get into 10 Hard To Accept Quotes About People In Your Life.

1) SOME PEOPLE WILL BE IN YOUR LIFE FOR REASONS YOU DO NOT KNOW. WHEN THOSE REASONS CHANGE THEY MOVE ON

This is hard to accept, especially when you never saw it coming. However, it’s the honest truth.

Some people will be in your life purely for ulterior motives. Those motives are kept hidden from you. And when those motives come to fruition, they move on.

Your only defense against this is to make sure you’re sustainable if such a person moves on from your life. Otherwise, it may cause an impact of high magnitude.

2) PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS FORMULATE THEIR OWN OPINION ABOUT YOU. DON’T LOSE SLEEP OVER THAT

It would be wonderful if everyone in your life believed you were who you say you were. But that’s not the case.

By nature some people are going to formulate their own opinion of you, completely made up according to their own conclusions. Don’t take it personally, it’s human nature.

We’re simply letting you know so that you don’t lose sleep over it.

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3) SOME PEOPLE WILL OVERPRAISE YOU AND USE EXCESSIVE FLATTERY SIMPLY TO GAIN YOUR TRUST SO THAT THEY CAN GET SOMETHING FROM YOU THAT THEY WANT

It’s a very tactful thing, to overpraise people when you’re attempting to get something from them.

Think about it. It works. If someone  wants something from a person, praising them is a good start to getting it.

With that said, you have to learn to discern genuine praise from praise and flattery shared solely with an attempt to gain something from you.

4) NO NEED TO BE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WHO TALK BAD ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE WHEN THEY’RE NOT AROUND. IT’S CERTAIN THEY DO THE SAME WHEN YOU’RE NOT AROUND

On the list of 10 Hard To Accept Quotes About People In Your Life, this is one that sends off the most alarming warning signs.

If there’s people in your life who talk bad about other people when they’re not around, you can be certain that they do the same when you’re not around.

Think of all the people they’ve talked bad about. What makes you think they don’t do the same to you. Guess what? They do.

Only way to avoid this is not to participate in such chattery and to let those around you know and demonstrate that it’s never acceptable.

5) IF YOU KNEW HOW QUICKLY PEOPLE FORGET THE DEAD, YOU’D STOP LIVING TO IMPRESS PEOPLE

The people around you are important to you. But never make them so important that you are living your life to please them.

You need to carry yourself in your own way, everyday. You need to be who you are, whether they like it or not.

Do not pretend to be someone you’re not. Be who you are. If those around you have a problem with that, that’s their problem. Not yours.

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6) BE SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT NOT EVERYONE WANTS YOU TO WIN. FIGURE OUT THOSE WHO DO AND GET AWAY FROM THOSE WHO DON’T

As we continue with the 10 Hard To Accept Quotes About People In Your Life always keep this one in mind. Not everyone around you wants you to win. It’s true.

With that said, it’s your duty to pay attention and figure out who really wants you to win and who doesn’t. Keep those around who want to see you win and those who don’t keep them away or get away.

It’s been said that the easiest way to figure out who want to see you win is as simple as: Those who want to see you win, help you win.

There you have it. You find out who wants to see you win by knowing who it is that is helping you win.

7) BE CAREFUL WITH WHAT YOU TOLERATE. YOU’RE TEACHING PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT YOU

If you don’t like the way the people in your life are treating you, you are partially to blame. The reason is because people will treat you to the extent that you allow them to treat you.

Whatever your tolerance for, that’s how the people around you will continue to treat you.

If you don’t like the way the people around you are treating you, change your tolerance level. Confront them regarding any unwanted way that they are treating you. 

If they really care about you they will adjust according to your requests.

8)  EVERYONE WILL SHOW YOU WHO THEY TRULY ARE. JUST GIVE THEM TIME

You can believe that. A person can only hide who they really are but for so long. 

Meanwhile, you have to make sure that you have all of your bases covered so that they can’t harm your progress when they do reveal who they really are.

9)  SOME PEOPLE NEVER SEE WRONG IN THEIR ACTIONS, BUT ALWAYS POINT OUT YOURS

Be very mindful of such people in your life. The people who are quick to point out your wrongs, but never see their own.

Such people are spoken of in the Bible with a warning.

In the Book Of Matthew it reads: “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?”

10) SOMETIMES YOUR ASSUMPTIONS ARE WRONG, SO DON’T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS SO FAST

With everything that we’ve stated we close out with a warning to you. Many times such behavior from people around you are assumptions. 

With that said, don’t jump to conclusions too fast or you will make a fool of yourself. Move patiently and carefully and use good judgment when executing on hunches and assumptions.

CONCLUSION

We appreciate you reading these 10 Hard To Accept Quotes About People In Your Life. We’re sure you have many wonderful people in your life and these 10 quotes will help you discern those who are not.

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